Do you wish that your sex life was more adventurous? More spontaneous? More exciting? Do you have secret desires or fantasies that you have never fulfilled? Are you afraid that if you told your partner about these that they may think you're "silly", or that that may be angry, or that they will no longer feel the same way about you? Most of us have never told our partners everything about us. To do so would leave us totally exposed and vulnerable to criticism, ridicule, rejection and anger. Because we haven't been able to communicate these thoughts to our partner, many have felt unfulfilled.
Quite simply, if we can't communicate to our partners exactly what we want and how we want it, sexually or otherwise, or needs are not being met; and if our needs are not met, we begin to feel unloved, which tends to make us communicate with our partners even less.
We know that this is not what you really want. After all, your partner, the one with whom you should be sharing your innermost thoughts, is the person that you love and should be closest to. This is the person that you may plan to spend the rest of your life with. This is the person that will help you to face life's challenges. But how many of us have held back talking to our partners about certain aspects of ourselves? Many people have a fantasy that they have had for years, a fetish that they keep secret, a desire that has yet to be realized.
Most people simple lock these secret thoughts in their mind and never reveal them to anyone. At Sexual Solutions, we believe that these are precisely the kinds of things that you should talk with your partner about, and we can help you to do that.
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